Fantasy sex. Add another dimension!

El siguiente texto es un extracto del libro Fantasy sex. Add another dimension! (ISBN: 9781646999699) Conocerlo, entenderlo, interpretarlo y ayudarlo, escrito por Emily Dubberley, publicado por de Vecchi /DVE ediciones.

Introduction

The silver bikini clung to my curves as I walked out of the sea, drawing the attention of a lone man standing on the beach. Buff, toned and tanned, his eyes followed me as I leaned forward to dry my hair. I knew that he’d be able to see down my bikini top, but that was my plan. Within moments, the handsome stranger was by my side.

‘Drink?’ he asked, proffering a bottle of water in my direction.

‘Thanks,’ I said, and seductively slipped it between my lips, taking a big gulp and letting some of the water splash down my front. His eyes followed the water droplet that ran down my cleavage.

‘There’s a fresh water lagoon over there, if you fancy washing the salt out of your hair.’

‘Sounds divine.’

I followed him towards the clearing and watched him slip off his sexily tattered jeans to reveal … absolutely nothing. Or, to be more accurate, something rather big.

‘Skinny dipping is the only way to enjoy swimming here,’ he said.

‘Couldn’t agree more.’

I stripped off my bikini and lazily dived into the lagoon. He followed suit, surfacing next to me and pulling me into his arms in a long kiss. Although I’d never met the man before, I suspected that we wouldn’t be strangers for long … Then the bus pulled up at my stop and my daydreaming ended abruptly.

What is Fantasy?

Sexual imagination is a wonderful thing. You can let your mind create different places, personas and people without leaving the comfort of your own bed (or, indeed, the bus – although you might end up missing your stop!). You can use it alone or with a partner, for self-indulgence or for foreplay.

Sexual fantasy is, in fact, one of the best ways to enhance your sex life, requiring nothing more than your mind. Of course, props and costumes can add to the experience, but you don’t need to spend any money in order to indulge your fantasies to the full.

The brain is the most important sex organ in the body, so ensuring that it’s properly stimulated can have an intense effect on the way that your body responds. Given this, playing with fantasy is one of the best ways to enhance your sex life, no matter how ‘mild’ or ‘wild’ you consider yourself to be.

Fantasy is perfectly normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Both men and women fantasize, sometimes during masturbation, sometimes during sex and sometimes just as a way to while away a dull Sunday afternoon.

Sometimes it’s about things that they’ve already done, but just as often it’s about something they wouldn’t do in their wildest dreams. Just because someone has a sexual fantasy, it doesn’t necessarily follow that they want it to come true. Fantasies can be just as powerful – if not more so – when kept purely in your mind, or shared with a lover.

That said, sometimes it can be fun to make your fantasies come true. Whether you start slowly by merely talking about your fantasy during sex, or dive right in with outfits, role-play scenarios and props, is up to you. However, unless your partner shares your fantasy to the letter, it does make sense to start gently and work your way up. Good things come to those who wait, after all.

Some people claim that they never have sexual fantasies. While this may be true, it’s a lot more likely that they simply haven’t explored that side of themselves before. Fantasy Sex will help guide you on that journey, by providing you with common fantasies, case studies from people who’ve made their fantasies come true, and suggestions as to where to find inspiration.

A fantasy doesn’t have to be elaborate: it could be as simple as making love to your partner while they’re wearing sexy lingerie, or caressing your partner under the dinner table when you’re at a restaurant. Alternatively, it could also involve a cast of thousands and things that you’re not entirely sure are physically possible! Only by opening your mind will you find out what’s in there.

Some people are scared at the idea of exploring fantasy for exactly this reason. However, fantasy and reality are not the same thing. Even if your erotic imagi-nation is full of dark thoughts that you’d never really want to experience, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. Taboo ideas often have the strongest appeal precisely because they’re forbidden. Most people have some thoughts that they’d prefer to keep private because they’re ashamed of them.

While there’s no reason to feel guilty about any thoughts you have, you may wish to save sharing your more extreme fantasies with a partner until you’ve both spent a while exploring the tamer side of your fantasies – if at all. Who knows: by the time you decide that you’re ready to let your kinkier fantasies out, your partner may confess to having exactly the same desires.

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